毛豆语录

开学第一个礼拜

开车送毛豆豆到学校

下车的时候,我照常说,快点儿,小巴比

毛豆豆很不高兴的对我说

不要叫我小!也不要叫我比!

我说,那我叫你什么呢?

叫毛豆豆啊?

可以!

//另外,毛豆豆这几天又感冒了。咳嗽厉害。

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A few questions

Why it’s so successful?

1. 普通民众会买他们的产品。

购买是基于Trust。Or. Faith and Hope.

那么普通民众为什么会相信?

The logos of truth is overwhelmed by logos of lies.

Propaganda of lies are pushed by money, corrupted power.

Truth also needs power to promote.

There are different powers.

Legislative power, executive power, interpretation power.

But the fourth power is the strongest, that’s media power.

And thanks to social media, truth is able to spread faster than before.

2. 为什么会有这么多人加入传销队伍。

There is some positive feeebacks. Pyramid scheme is the key.

Why pyramid scheme is so powerful?

Because people trust the story. It’s simple, easy to understand and there are many witnesses.

When people is obsessed with money, they tend to over estimate the speed to success. Or, under estimate the cost. Moreover, they believe they can success in the future even when they lost in near term.

The stream of success stories will keep washing your brain, enforce your belief system. And human are thirst for success.

乱七八糟

最近老婆不在家,有时holiday season,小孩活动多

所以有更多时间陪毛豆

虽然平时毛豆都是人家眼里的天使宝贝,但是这几天注意到了几个问题

前天跟leon家玩

leon是豆豆的好朋友

毛毛没有专门的玩伴

在creativity museum几个人各玩各的,还不错

后来吃了饭,去游乐场玩

豆豆跟leon一溜烟就跑掉了

毛毛追也追不上,就很生气,跟我说豆豆不管她,也不跟她玩

后来三个人一起玩滑梯,玩起来了,毛毛也不抱怨了

但是还是出状况了

leon让我tag他们

leon和豆豆在滑梯顶上

我说我不能上去

毛毛让我守住滑梯下面

说她上去tag他们

她到了上面,leon也不知道她要tag他

毛毛就很轻易的tag了leon一下

然后leon就要反过来tag她

毛毛就逃

leon还是tag到她了

毛毛正好不小心下楼梯没踩对

整个屁股坐下来,从一个三四级的台阶下滑下去了,估计屁股被顶得不轻

我看到她表情不对,匆忙跑下来

我报住她,说刚才是不是摔到了

她开始哭,然后生气,说leon推她了

我安慰她

她看到leon从身边跑过去的时候,一下子来了劲儿

追过去使劲打了一下leon

我很生气,使劲拍了一下毛毛

又抱着她,她哭闹着要回家

说不想被人看到红眼圈

唉。当时心力憔悴,恨不得以后不再带他们出来玩了。

安慰了许久,又给她擦了擦眼睛。

又教训了她。

后来她心情平复下来。觉得自己做的不对,专门又跑去给leon道歉,还画了个贺卡送给leon。

昨天接毛毛豆豆从朋友家回来

他们和sarah还有lucy玩life game

豆豆好像玩的不好,是最后一名,出门就开始眼眶湿润,说自己最后,然后开始啜泣

开车回到家,正好碰到壮壮家也回到家,豆豆兴奋的从车里出去,毛毛却不出来,我也不知道为什么。

后来我把车停下。我把毛毛叫出来,要一起去迎接豆豆家。

毛毛说星期六sarah去开party,为什么我们没去!

我没放心上,跟壮壮他们打招呼

毛毛就从后面过来打了我一下,又问了我一遍

我一下子怒火中烧

我说他们应该是中文学校party,sarah妈妈是中文老师,我和妈妈都不是!

哎。。。

毛毛其实还是很容易受伤。豆豆也是。可怎么搞?

乱七八糟

Responsibility is power. It brings meaning, and motivation. It can help you to overcome suffering. It drives you to sacrifice.

Knowledge is power. Higher power doesn’t nessecery need more storage. Alphago neural nets has higher power than others, but model size is small, highly condensed. It has knowledge closer to truth. So, closer to truth is very important. That’s why you always need to pursue truth. You are gaining more power.

Goal bings responsibility, gives meaning, but is also dangerous. Because it has risk of failing. Can you tolerate failure? If not, you have risk of lose meaning and killing yourself. So, have a goal, but also prepare for failure. Prepare for second road. Aim high, but OK to fail. OK to get impact results. Don’t be ashamed if you fail.

Stable is better than instability in general. Stable small gain is better than quick big gain and quick big loss. So don’t be greedy. It introduce instability.

grow

升到5后,老板和老板的老板在不同时段提到我需要grow其他人

于是最近对grow产生了兴趣

不是grow自己,而是grow别人

g很看重grow

提供各种各样的资源grow

比如网课,比如mentor

其实教养孩子也就是grow他们

有一个基本原则就是你不要帮他们把所有事情都做了

要给他们responsibilities,给他们ownership,让他们自己去drive一些projects

别人多做些东西,你也可以少做些东西

不仅如此,别人还grow了,可以帮你做更多的东西

在家里也一样,毛毛不用我们帮忙带隐形眼镜,真是省了不少事儿

毛毛说,我还可以帮助豆豆数学作业,中文作业

真是个省心的孩子

还有什么原则呢?

debug tool and investigation

world are complex

everything can easily become complex

and not transparent

like human illness

like software crashing

something wrong but we cannot see

to fix it, we need to understand

to understand, we need to look inside

to look inside, we need to investigate

to investigate, we need tool

a tool to visualize what happened inside

it’s vision, deep vision.

比诺曹

半夜醒来突然想起比诺曹的故事

越想越多睡不着觉

把唔到的东西写下来免得忘

我们每个人其实都是比诺曹

我们看似是个自由的活人,其实不是

我们处于三个阶段

第一个阶段是马戏团阶段

我们追逐名利

后果是被囚禁

第二个阶段是Treasure island

我们放弃了自己的责任,追求享乐

成了罪的奴仆

第三个阶段是自我救赎

我们跟随圣灵,逃离treasure island

去寻找父亲

并牺牲自己

然而死而复活,成为真正的人

在第一个阶段我们仍然是木偶。第二个阶段连木偶都不是了,我们变成了驴,第三个阶段从半木偶半驴变成真正的人

电影中木匠应该指的是天父上帝

Jiminy cricket代表圣灵。有种说法是Jesus Christ。

狐狸和猫代表这个世界,世俗的文化

Coachman代表魔鬼撒旦

天父造了我们,希望我们成为real man,然而我们不听从圣灵的声音,被世界裹挟,去追求名利,陷入名利的牢笼。我们又被撒旦所诱惑,坐上通往地狱的马车。然而上帝等不到我们回家,心里焦急,出门四处寻找。我们在陷入牢笼之后,才开始想到家的温暖,想回家,想去寻找父亲。圣经说,寻找,就寻见。当我们决意寻找天父的那一刻,我们就注定被救赎,不仅脱离牢笼,成为自由的人,而且寻见天父,回到了家。

耶稣说,你若不死亡,就不得重生。若不抛弃这个世界,就无法跟从。我走了,但是会差派圣灵来住在你们心里,做你们的consouler。

圣经说,务要谨守、警醒,因为你们的仇敌魔鬼如同吼叫的狮子, 遍地游行,寻找可吞吃的人。

a bug

spend several hours to debug

and then the fix just took two lines ….

a few lessons:

1) it takes lots of time to understand other people’s code

2) print is very helpful

3) just print as much as possible in the beginning.